Your points are of course valid. I guess different personality types handle issues differently. I've never come across a fight that is presented as an option. It's always to prove "they" are right so that I can accept their point of view. It's hard sometimes. Depending on who I am in conversation/argument/fight with, those I deem not worth my time/effort, I'll walk off. I value relationships, not the winning of an argument/fight. Thanks for thinking this through with me, Eduard.